Older Children, Bed-Wetting, and Self-Diapering

I had covered this issue briefly in an earlier sharepost on the health Central Network. This issue concerns me and that is why I felt it needed to be covered in more depth. On this website and others I have read about parents and babysitters diapering older children with bed-wetting problems. Some of these children are 9 or older. As we all know bed-wetting can be very stressful and in my conception this stress can be exacerbated by parents not letting their child put on their own protection. By no means am I a childcare devotee but my intuition tells me that above the age of 3 or 4 a child should be taught how to put on their own diapers.

As Mentioned in a previous post I had a friend who had to babysit a 6 year old. She was telling me that she had to diaper the child before he went to bed. Due to his age I assumed he was potty trained and that the presume he wore diapers was because of a bed-wetting problem. She told me that he went running straight through the house naked and screaming and refused to let her put the diapers on him,which I can't say as I blame him.

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I do believe that an older child,adolescent,or teenager should wear diapers to bed if all attempts to cure it have failed and if other garMents such as pull-ups and "Goodnites" don't offer adequate safety but I also feel that the youngster should be responsible for putting on their own safety unless they have some cognitive and/or bodily disability that makes it either difficult for them to do so or prevents them from doing so. Diapering an older child has the inherent to drastically effect a child's psychological health for years to come.

Older Children, Bed-Wetting, and Self-Diapering

There are inevitable tasks that can be accomplished by youngsters who aren't cognitively or physically impAired including tying one's shoes,putting on one's Clothes,etc. Diapering one's self in my conception would fit into this category also.

If the parents are concerned that the child might not Fasten the diapers correctly thereby causing the diapers to leak the parents can show the child how to Fasten the diapers correctly. One way of doing this is to lay the diaper on the bed,have the child sit in the diaper,and tell them how to fold and Fasten the diapers properly. I would do this when the child is young because the older the child gets the more embarrassed the child will feel. This is a very sensitive area for children. Many bed-wetting children feel self-conscious and embarrassed about wearing diapers to bed(although as I have pointed out many times they shouldn't be) and having their parents diapering them will make them feel even more self-conscious and embarrassed. Also bed-wetting makes many children feel helpless and by parents diapering the child it reinforces the feeling of helplessness. That is why children should be taught to be independent in this are as soon as possible.

As far as pin-on diapers are concerned some parents are afraid that the youngster might stick themselves with the pins. This is truly a valid concern but if proper precautions are taken this shouldn't be an issue. I was talking to someone in customer aid for a business that sells pin-on Cloth diapers and plastic Pants for older children and adults with bed-wetting problems to get her take on the situation and she told me that at the age of 7 or below the parents might need to Fasten the diapers,above the age of 7 it would depend on the child's developMent. I believe the same steps taken with disposable diapers can also be taken with pin-on diapers. Again the parents should lay the diapers on the bed,have the child sit in them,and teach them the accurate way to fasten the diapers. I can't emphasize this enough-children need to be taught at a young age how to be independent in this area.

Another idea I have for teaching youngsters how to be self-sufficient in this area is the following. I don't know how feasible this idea is and I admit it's somewhat unusual but like the saying goes in many situations it's good to think outside the box. In many community colleges they use dummies to demonstrate inevitable medical techniques to nursing students. The parents could talk to the head of the nursing department at their local community college and see if they could borrow a dummy and then use the dummy to teach the child the accurate way of fastening the diapers. If the head of the nursing department asks you why you want to borrow the dummy you can illustrate that you have a child who wears diapers for a bed-wetting qoute and you want to use the dummy to teach them how to correctly fasten the diapers. If you are not able to borrow the dummy you can ask them if they have any suggestions about what to do in this situation. I presume that purchasing something like this from a medical Supply store would be expensive so the nurse at the community college might have ideas about alternative approaches to the situation. In increasing you might want to call your local medical/hospital Supply store and see if they have any ideas. About how to deal with this matter. As I mentioned earlier this is a very delicate situation that has the inherent to do irreparable psychological harm to a child.

I wonder if some parents diaper their older child because on some level they might miss the closeness of the parent/Infant relationship and this is a way to recreate this. Some parents either consciously or sub- consciously want to keep their child at a inevitable level of development because the parents don't want to let go emotionally. It must be stressed that this is just speculation,and I'm not saying this is necessarily the case with all parents who put on their older child's diapers but the fact that this could be a factor with some habitancy should be thought about and if this the case it should be adDressed with a mental health pro in order to preclude causing emotional harm to the child.

I hope habitancy understand that this article is not meant as a annotation of anyone's parenting skills. It's meant to help habitancy realize that children are very sensitive concerning these sorts of issues. Children need their privacy and independence in these areas and by not respecting this it makes them feel undignified. I hope this helps habitancy look at this issue in a new light. As always I feel dialogue on these matters is very important and I welcome any constructive thoughts on this matter...

Older Children, Bed-Wetting, and Self-Diapering

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